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Assertiveness Quiz

1) Assertiveness is...
a) A set of communication techniques almost anyone can learn.
b) Only worth learning if you're very shy.
c) Not worth bothering with if you're a man.
d) Impossible to maintain in the long term.

2) Assertive people...
a) Are afraid to express their opinions.
b) Express their opinions loudly and aggressively.
c) Don't have opinions
d) Express their opinions calmly.

3) For criticism to be assertive it must...
a) Be rude.
b) Be said behind someone's back.
c) Be constructive.
d) Be an attack on a person's personality.

4) Assertive people say the word "No"...
a) Firmly and clearly.
b) With tears in their eyes.
c) Apologetically.
d) Angrily.

5) Assertiveness can support you in...
a) Addressing discrimination.
b) Imposing your views on others.
c) Devaluing the rights of others.
d) Being subtly discriminatory.

6) An assertive person...
a) Acts assertively.
b) Speaks and/or signs assertively.
c) Develops quality relationships.
d) All of the above.

7) An assertive person is most likely to say...
a) I feel angry when you appear to ignore me.
b) You make me angry when you ignore me.
c) I can't help being angry when you ignore me.
d) It's your fault I'm angry because you ignored me.

8) An assertive person has...
a) An enormous ego.
b) Healthy self esteem.
c) An inferiority complex.
d) No feelings, just a rational mind.

9) When criticised, an assertive person will feel...
a) Unmoved.
b) Devastated
c) Mostly curious.
d) Self-defensive

10) Key skills in being assertive are...
a) Listening, questioning and positively managing one's own responses.
b) Dressing smartly and having a nice car.
c) Having a well paid job and lots of friends.
c) Being spiritual and meditating.

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